Wednesday, October 12, 2005

N&R Article

Bob Burchette has a very nice article in this mornings N&R on my Grandmother who recently passed away at 92.

To me it would take a whole edition to sum up all the good in that frail womans little body and all that she did for her friends, neighbors, church and family. If I could do 1/4 of what she did in her lifetime, I would consider it a life well lived.

Yes, the chess pies were good, but my favorite was her chicken pie.

A very special lady.

Thanks Mr. Burchette.

Sunday, October 02, 2005

Hoggards at the Tournament

Final day at the Greensboro Chrysler Classic.

Great crowd, beautiful women, awesome weather, and cold beer.

What more could you ask for?

Followed Sergio Garcia on the front nine and decided to cop a seat at the 18th green and watch everybody come in.

Sitting in the bleachers and I look up to see someone who I thought was Jinni moving into the row in front of me. Thoughts confirmed when David moved in beside her a short time later.

Jinni looked hot in her brown hat and pink skirt. I can see why David married the lady.

Don't see why she married him though! (JK)

Not into men but I guess David looked O.K. too in his ensemble, but David, them sunglasses gotta go!

One of Greensboros' premier bloggers sitting in the row in front of me and three people to my left.

Wanted to say hi but my anoniminity has to be protected.

Anyway, David & Jinni, nice to almost meet you.

The Political Agitator and Skip

The Political Agitator:

"All real NAACP members ought to be pissed with the arrogance of Melvin "Skip" Alston as he is doing what many racist whites does and that is to mislead black folks when it comes to real black leadership."

He also talks about Skips' "behind the scenes fights."

Nail on the head??

Thursday, September 29, 2005

Another Musical Weekend

Last weekends Blues Challenge was a huge success.

Mighty Lester of Raleigh were the winners and will represent the PBPS in Memphis at the International Blues Challenge in February 2006. They will also be on stage at next years Carolina Blues Festival and the Bull Durham Blues Festival.

Although not my choice for top band, the judges saw differently.

This Sunday, October 2, welcomes the Hurricane Katrina Benefit Concert with all proceeds going to the American Red Cross.

70 bands performing in 12 different locations.

Buy a wristband for $10 and see any band at any of the venues for one donation of $10. Great way to spend a Sunday and for a great cause.

Details here.

Friday, September 23, 2005

Great Blues Weekend Ahead

The 19th Annual Piedmont Blues Preservation Society Blues Challenge (whew!) is scheduled for this Saturday and Sunday at the Lions Lair in High Point.

19 bands over 2 days competing for a chance to represent the PBPS in Memphis.

Always a good crowd and lots of fun.

Silent auction with 2 pairs of 4th row tickets to see Buddy Guy in Greensboro on Oct. 16, plus many other great items.

Click here for details and band schedule.

Friday, September 16, 2005

Road Trip

tonight to see Bernard Allison.

Singer, songwriter, and son of Luther Allison, Bernard will be playing at the Double Door Inn in Charlotte.

Bernards' first recording, at age 12 1/2 was playing guitar with his father on a live album called "Gonna Be a Live One in Here Tonight" in 1979.

Four days out of high school he joined Koko Taylors' band the Blues Machine. He has also played with Johnny Winter and Stevie Ray Vaughn, where he picked up his slide technique.

His latest album, Higher Power is a great mix of Blues, Soul, and Funk.

Should be a great show.

All I can say is I'm getting ready and looking forward to it.

Sunday, September 11, 2005

The Big Link

Go visit The Big Link.

"Writing Spider" in the Garden


This little guy was hard at work in the garden yesterday afternoon. He had what looked to be a wasp in his clutches, spinning his web around it before..............

moving on to big and better things. It's really amazing to sit and watch these creatures do their handiwork.

Left all dressed up with no place to go. Posted by Picasa

Wednesday, September 07, 2005

Grandma

My grandmother passed away yesterday afternoon.

Nine days shy of her 93rd birthday, she had a long and fruitful life, but it’s still hard to let go of someone you cared so much for and who has had a great impact on who you are as a person.

Grandma was a great cook, caregiver, disiciplinarian, and friend. She was an avid churchgoer who often went out of her way to help other people.

I can remember a time at her house in High Point when I was young, seeing a total stranger come up to the house and knock on the door. Grandma answered the door, talked to the man for a minute, then walked off leaving me and him standing there. I must have been about 6 or 7 at the time but I can still remember him looking real dirty and with a scraggly beard.

A few minutes later Grandma came back and handed the man a couple of sandwiches she had made and a big glass of milk. He sat down on the front porch steps and proceeded to eat then he got up and left.

I asked Grandma who that was and she said she didn’t know. I asked her why she was giving him sandwiches and her answer has always stuck in my mind.

“Because he was hungry.”

That’s the way Grandma was. Whatever she had she was willing to share it with someone in need. I don’t know if it was just out of the goodness of her heart, or if she was trying to set an example, but it instilled in me that there are less fortunate people that do need help.

She also took care of my Grandfather who had Charcot Marie disease coupled with essential tremors. He also had a stroke a few years before he died, but there she was, always by his side and tending to his every need. Truly for better or worse. I think they were married about 65 years when Grandpa died.

As for the discipline part, Grandma would tear your butt up in a heartbeat. My sisters and I both learned that real quick. We learned right from wrong the old-fashioned way.

I went with Grandma and Grandpa to the Ellington family reunion in Oregon Hill when I was about 9 or 10. I don’t remember what happened but I do remember Grandma slapping me in the mouth and proceeding to get in Grandpa’s face.

Apparently I’d said “Good God Almighty” and she had heard me. She slapped me for it and then chastised Grandpa for saying it in front of me where I’d pick it up. That was Grandpa’s favorite saying when he was upset. Needless to say I didn’t say that anymore, at least not where she could hear me.

What can I say about Grandma’s cooking?

I used to go over and keep their yard mowed since Grandpa was unable, and she would always cook dinner for me and Jr. Jr always wanted to go help me because he knew that Grandma was cooking. He couldn’t do a lot being 6 yrs old, but he sure could eat. After Grandpa died he did get old enough to ride the mower and was there almost every time I mowed, just for the food.

My favorite dish was her chicken pie. Home made crust. Juicy. Cooked to perfection. I could eat a half one by myself and she made BIG chicken pies.

I haven’t found anyone, my mother, sisters, ex wife included, that could cook like Grandma. Probably never will. But they try and it is good. Just not Grandma’s.

It’s been tough on Grandma the past 12 years, but her and Grandpa are back together again. Probably doing the Charleston on a cloud somewhere watching over the family down here.

I know Heaven is a better place with you there. You are in a better place and the place you worked your whole life to get to. You suffer no more.

Grandma, I love you and miss you terribly. I will see you again………………..

keep a chicken pie in the oven for me.




When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life in such a manner that when you die the world cries and you rejoice.
- Old Indian Saying

Saturday, September 03, 2005

Rehnquist Dead

Chief Justice William Rehnquist dead at 80.

The Big Link

This weeks Big Link

Friday, September 02, 2005

Astrodome's Zipcode

Via CNN the Houston Astrodome now has it's own zipcode.

77230

Katrina Aid Again

It looks to me like a total clusterf**k on the part of FEMA and the federal government to aid victims of hurricane Katrina.

No food, water, medical supplies. People dying, looting, getting beaten and raped.

Hell, our response to the Asian tsunami was faster and more organized than this. Why can we get aid to people overseas faster than we can to our own citizens?

In Washington, President Bush admitted "the results are not acceptable" and pledged to bolster the relief efforts with a personal trip to the Gulf Coast on Friday.
"We'll get on top of this situation," he said before setting out, "and we're going to help the people that need help."


That's all they need, another incompetent Federal employee running around down there, with his finger in his a**, and no clue what to do.

How many people have to die before you "get on top of this situation"?

SUPPOSE this had been a terrorist attack instead of a hurricane.

Would the response have been any faster? Would you have been any more organized? Would you have had better control of the situation?

I shudder to think what that answer might be.

Wednesday, August 31, 2005

Katrina Aid

It's heartbreaking to see the videos of the destruction left behind on the gulf coast by hurricane Katrina. It will undoubtedly be a long time before things get back to normal down there, if they ever do.

It's nice to see the american corporations stepping up to the plate with food, water, and cash donations to help their fellow citizens, and I have done my part by donating to the Red Cross efforts.

One question I have to ask though.

Where is the international community?

Every disaster in another country is followed by requests and sometimes "demands" for U.S. aid. Then when the Americans "annie up" and give aid we are sometimes criticized for it not being enough.

Where is their help now that we could use it??

Instead of siphoning off our taxdollars "as fast as the dollar wheels on a gas pump turn", step up to the plate. Do your part.

But as usual, I'm sure it will be Americans taking care of Americans.

Tuesday, August 23, 2005

A late "Big Link"

Sorry the "Big Link" is late but just got back from the coast.

Back in 'da "Big City"


Finally made it back to the "big city" from Morehead/Atlantic Beach on Sunday, and with a thankful no show from Irene.Just in time to start classes on Monday.

With everyday scenes such as this early morning sunrise.............





this deserted beach perfect for reflecting and quiet time alone.........................





and this sunset, it makes me wonder why the hell I ever decided to come back.

It also makes me want to put the residence up for sale, transfer to Cape Fear Community College, and get out. I don't think it would take much convincing on my part to get the "son" to move, but what would I do without "Greensboro"? Posted by Picasa

Saturday, August 13, 2005

Thanks Irene

Looks like Irene is going to spare the coast.

Thanks.

So it's off to the beach later this morning for a much needed vacation before starting my classes on August 22.

Yep, back to school 32 years after graduating! But that's a whole 'nother post.

The Big Link

The big link for this week is Roch's new local internet advertising company.

Thursday, August 11, 2005

Me, Myself and Irene

No not the Jim Carrey movie, but I'd really like to know what it is with Me, Myself and Irene.

The 1999 Hurricane Irene ran me and a friend off the coast from a long awaited fishing trip. We left during torrential rains only to drive home and find out that rain was the only thing North Carolina got out of the storm. The weather was beautiful at the coast the day after we got home.

Now we have another Irene threatening the North Carolina coast. Just so happens that our annual family beach trip to Emerald Isle is planned for next week.

Do we go or not??

Nobody saying anything right now but I'd sure hate to go down there and have to turn around and drive back in all that "evacuation traffic".

Go figure. Just my luck.

Just hope the bitch stays away from here.

And if I ever do get married again, her name will not be Irene.

Showtime

Showtime's new program "Weeds".

Showtime's promotion for new subscribers. Free Haagen-Dazs for a year.

Coincidence?

Probably not but what better way to satisfy your "munchies" after watching that new program?

But for how long?

With all the hoopla over this at the August 1 G'boro City Council meeting and the plans to adopt a resolution against it and officially contact businesses selling this product and expressing displeasure, a resolution may be adopted against watching Showtime in Greensboro NC because of their new program.